Are women better off to be a mistress than a wife?

For so many years, this question keeps ringing in my ears. This always reminds me of the time when I was trying to find the reason why my marriage failed.

And though my children told me my only mistake was being selfless, I keep on thinking what does it take to be a mistress. Why there are men who will leave their wives for other women.

What does the mistress has that she can make an egoist, a cruel, and a stingy man change? Isn’t it that people change only through their own will and volition?

A question that until now I haven’t find the answer.

Morning thoughts

Our life is full of ironies we tend to crave for what we don’t have and disregard what we already have. And often times, we wish for things that are impossible instead of being realistic and work on and improve on the resources we have.  On the other hand, it is good to dream big so we can have greater accomplishment.  Very ironic that in the end we become confused and lost in out thoughts.